"For although the thinkers say that actuality is annihilated possibility, that is not entirely true; it is the fulfilled, the active possibility. Here, on the contrary, the actuality . . . which is thus also a negation, is the possibility annihilated, rendered impotent. Usually the relation of the actual to the possible is one of confirmation; here it is a denial."– Søren Kierkegaard, The Sickness Unto Death
In
my last post I discussed one writer's perspective on the debate over
what to call “intersex” people, those in possession of bodies
which are neither male nor female. I'd like to begin this one by
instead thinking on what we should call those who display hatred or
fear towards these people. “Transphobia,” says Kate Bornstein,
“is one term in vogue with some transsexuals” (74). The intended
meaning of this term seems obvious enough; fear of transgender
= transphobia. But etymologically this word wants to take on a
broader meaning than the one it was made for.
Collins
English Dictionary contains the following entry for the prefix:
trans- or (sometimes before s-) tran-— prefix
1. across, beyond, crossing, on the other side: transoceanic ; trans-Siberian ; transatlantic
2. changing thoroughly: transliterate
3. transcending: transubstantiation
4. transversely: transect
5. (often in italics) Compare cis- indicating that a chemical compound has a molecular structure in which two groups or atoms are on opposite sides of a double bond: trans-butadiene
[from Latin trāns across, through, beyond]
What's your gender?
When did you decide that?
How much say do you have in your gender?
Is there anything about your gender or gender role that you don't like, or that gets in your way?
Are there one or two qualities about another gender that are appealing to you, enough so that you'd like to incorporate those qualities into your daily life?
What would happen to your life if you did that?
What would your gender be then?
How do you think people would respond to you?
How would you feel if they did that?
So,
we can clearly see that although “transphobia” is intended and
taken to mean something like “fear of transsexuality,” the word
itself resists that circumscription. Bornstein briefly discusses this
potential: “Fear of crossing? Fear of transgressing? If this term
were allowed that sort of breadth—that is including the fear and
hatred of any kind of border-dwellers—then it might have some
possibilities” (74). As the dictionary entry shows us, the
etymological possibilities for trans- far exceed the limited
scope of transphobia's coinage and usage. Seen in this light,
“transphobia” comes to bear a plurality of related meanings; fear
of crossing, fear of change, fear of going beyond, fear of the other
side, fear of being situated or extended across something, fear of
being or going beyond, across, or above limits or boundaries of any
kind—fear of surpassing, overcoming, rising above, or notable
extension beyond ordinary limits. In Kierkegaardian terms, we might
say that transphobia is a fear of possibility,
that in the case of gender, we witness transphobia whenever we see
the annihilation of possibility in protection of a gendered
actuality, the binary of male and female.
Bornstein
(79) poses a series of questions which I will transcribe here:
What's your gender?
When did you decide that?
How much say do you have in your gender?
Is there anything about your gender or gender role that you don't like, or that gets in your way?
Are there one or two qualities about another gender that are appealing to you, enough so that you'd like to incorporate those qualities into your daily life?
What would happen to your life if you did that?
What would your gender be then?
How do you think people would respond to you?
How would you feel if they did that?
I
encourage anyone reading this post to seriously consider these
questions, keeping in mind the above discussion of 'trans-'. I would
add one more question to this list: Do
you display qualities belonging to a gender other than your own?
For instance, are you a man who considers himself sensitive? A woman
who could be called competitive? Do you enjoy sex? Not enjoy sex?
Have you ever been afraid? If we take this line of questioning to its
logical extreme, it seems fair to say that there is no real person
who displays only and all of the qualities assigned to his/her
gender. I assert that everyone
is transgender
insofar as every person falls somewhere between the binary of
man/woman, that no matter how we define “woman” or “man”
there will be someone who identifies as such that will be left out by
our definition. Also, I think it is fair to say that everyone
is transphobic,
that is, no matter what your views on gender, there is someone who
exists in such a way that their very presence, the very possibility
of their being what they are, will challenge those views and provoke
in you an unavoidable feeling of fear.
Is
this a productive way to think? It certainly deprives “transgender”
as a category of any political salience, and likewise deprives
“transphobia” of any kind of ad hominem function. The latter
clause probably isn't a bad thing, and if nothing else allows us to
recognize the fear of change and subscription to normality that is
present in every single one of us, no matter how radical we think we
are. Likewise, recognizing the ways in which each and every person
resists characterization as their gender identity can do wonders for
consciousness and solidarity within social justice movements
surrounding topics of sex and gender. Ultimately, of course, people
who identify with the T in LGBT are the ones who should decide what
their trans identity means, and the kind of reasoning I'm presenting
here can result in dangerous, homogenous social ontology; I call
myself “transgender” if and only if such a term can rightly be
applied to everyone, and not otherwise.
Works Cited:
Kierkegaard. The Sickness Unto Death. <http://bit.ly/1aSfOxa>
Bornstein, Kate. Gender Outlaw. <http://bit.ly/NzIKQz>
"trans-."
Collins
English Dictionary - Complete & Unabridged 10th Edition.
HarperCollins Publishers. 11 Feb. 2014. <Dictionary.com |
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/trans->.