As a society we have a tendency to
crave normalcy, even if it means marginalizing human beings at that expense.
Class discussion pointed out how ridiculous it is to determine a persons
characteristics, dreams and abilities by their biological make up. When we are
born, we are not innately prepared to lead a life defined by our body, but
rather we are conditioned by society and its expectations. The importance of
gender is limited to the label. Labels provide comfort because if we know
enough to give something a name, it is safe to assume we will know what to
expect. Not being able to give something a label admits we don’t know
everything, and uncertainty makes people uneasy and afraid.
The dependency for a label is a
reflection of a flaw in society rather than a flaw in those they have
marginalized. In this case the marginalized are those who could be described as
intersex. Reis explains in great detail their struggle with the stigma that was
forced upon them. It starts with, and is perpetuated by the language that
people use to describe these people.
Initially intersex people were
viewed as being monstrous. Aristotle was very straightforward with his artwork
and portrayed a message that would “explicitly linking inhuman monsters and
hermaphrodites.” (Reis 5) The puritans believed that every event was a sign
from God, that the birth of a monster and consequently a hermaphrodite was a
warning of sorts.
As time went on people abandoned
the idea that hermaphrodites were monstrous, and were able to accept that they
too were people or human beings. But because they were “different” they still
carried the stigma with them. There were documents that showed that people were
able to look passed the “flaw” in their biological make up, to the person
inside. One was characterized as being honest and loyal and punctual although
he also had a temper. He was described as ambiguous by sexuality terms and even
his personality stopped him from being able to be identified as either gender. The
idea was presented that he shouldn’t interact with people beyond that which was
necessary to make a living and support himself.
Although this progress had been
made it was hindered by the fact that intersex people were accused of fraud.
The idea of fraud tells that a person isn’t acting in a way that is true to
what they are. By using the term fraud, it insulates again that society is
claiming that gender defines them as a person. That the ambiguity is wrong,
that the person with this biological make up is wrong about however they chose
to act, rather than ever entertaining the idea that the need to know and
control another person and their lifestyle simply because it is different is
what is wrong.
The stigma changed again to the
idea that intersex people were perverts. This idea was rooted in two
fundamental notions. First being the importance of marriage and the second
being the fear of homosexuality. The idea that intersex people should be
celibate was emphasized at this point. “he recommended eliminating sexual
desire altogether through surgery: “So ill-fitted for the generative function
and so prone to psychical perversions and moral degradation, such cases should
be castrated early in life.”” (Reis 69)
When Psychology was in it’s early
stages they used extensive personality tests in the attempt to reflect a
persons “true” gender. However although it was considered a science, at that
time it worked similarly to how religion did because the researchers had an
intended result they were aiming to “prove”. The idea behind personality tests
was that the person was able to choose their own answer, and their answers
would reflect the ideas and concerns of either a boy or a girl. The problems
with these tests were that they still promoted the idea that only two roles
were acceptable. Although they were choosing the answers they had they could
only end up being feminine or masculine. Today we know there are so many more
options that a person could be, so to confine people to such limited options is
simply self deluding and unrealistic.
People crave a sense of normalcy
and were able to find it through justifications of religion and science. It was
important because people were afraid of the unknown. They were able to continue
the stigma through different justifications. It is important to recognize that
although they were able to claim they had evolved and left such prejudice
behind, the stigma had simply changed form and shape, but it was still just as
present and apparent.
In todays society language presents
a lingering stigma. A lot of research time and thought has been done to truly
move forward in this regard. However regardless of intention ignorance of the
issue continues to marginalize those of intersex orientation. Certain names
such as hermaphrodite reflect times when other terms such as hybrid, or sexual
pervert, or creature were also relevant and it perpetuates that stigma.
Language has a lot of power.
Language is what reflects your thoughts, and your thoughts reflect the kind of
person and essentially who you are. In the effort of making a society where
everyone is understanding and open, it important to understand the stigma in
every form, recognize its flaw and take the personal responsibility to do what
you can to remove it from society.
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